Becky stands in front of an AI generated drumset
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You didn’t plan to manage the band; it just happened.

You grew up hanging gig posters on hydro poles, but that doesn’t work anymore. Now it’s all about promoting your band online, growing your fanbase, and getting booked - and you have no idea where to start.

Enter your girlfriend… or your bass player… or your cousin. Suddenly, they’re the band manager, social media strategist, and group therapist all in one.

But here’s the thing: they don’t know where to start either.

That’s where I come in.

As The Drummer’s Girlfriend, I help indie bands, musicians, and DIY managers learn how to get online and promote their music, get press, grow online, and keep the peace in the band while doing it.

If you want real-world tips on music marketing, band PR, social media for musicians, and DIY promotion, this is the place.


Let’s simplify your band’s promotion so you can get noticed and get back to the music, without losing your mind (or your bandmates) along the way.

(Nope, I’m not a musician; just a girl who has spent 20 years falling into the role of band manager, promoter, and therapist for family and friends’ bands. I’ve been where you are.…and yes, there really is a drummer!)

If you’re with the band and need to know how to get this done, join my waitlist to be the first to know about my courses and opportunities to work together!

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